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Todd (to All):
Todd (to All):
My question is how to deal with the denial that the person I’m with actually did this since it’s so far from whom I have been married to all these years and deal with no matter if we can stay together that no matter these horrible acts happened and can’t ever be taken away no matter know how much is shown or said about now I’m the person she wants to be with
steve (to All):
steve (to All):
yes
lilly (to All):
lilly (to All):
yes
lily (to All):
lily (to All):
yes
John (to All):
John (to All):
yes
Todd (to All):
Todd (to All):
yes it is
Beth (to All):
Beth (to All):
how long does it take for affair fog to lift after ending affair
Todd (to All):
Todd (to All):
right
Todd (to All):
Todd (to All):
I guess when I look at her I see her with him doing when she tries to be with me or touch me I see her doing that with him as what she wanted that’s what triggers me
Beth (to All):
Beth (to All):
yes
Tara (to All):
Tara (to All):
I am struggling to make any kind of peace with my marriage possibly finally ending – after 4 years of living separately. We have tried to reconcile and at times have done well – but he has gone back to the affair partner again and again. Last Dec. we found out she was pregnant and there is now a baby. We have been together for almost 26 years and have a 9 year old daughter. I am just not ok with this whole situation, and feel like I can’t move past me trying to “fix” the situation and end the destruction he has created. I feel very judged for standing by my marriage.
John (to All):
John (to All):
My wife had an affair with her then boss in 2009. I stumbled on evidence to in May, confronted her and she eventually admitted it. Been in marriage counseling for 6 weeks. yesterday the counselor told me that I likely won’t get answers to all my questions and I need to start moving forward. Told her (counselor) that it feels like she’s trying to hurry my healing. how do I get them both to understand that we need to repair the affair damage before I can work on general marriage issues?
Leah (to All):
Leah (to All):
what are signs that affair is ending and spouse moving back to marriage? we don’t talk of his ongoing affair and I sense a change but not sure what to look for
Beth (to All):
Beth (to All):
can’t hear you dr.
lily (to All):
lily (to All):
cant hear either
Todd (to All):
Todd (to All):
sound is gone
Sue (PRIVATE):
Sue (PRIVATE):
me either
Leah (to All):
Leah (to All):
yes
lilly (to All):
lilly (to All):
yes
lily (to All):
lily (to All):
yes
Passi (to All):
Passi (to All):
yes
John (to All):
John (to All):
yes
Tara (to All):
Tara (to All):
I am struggling to make any kind of peace with my marriage possibly finally ending – after 4 years of living separately. We have tried to reconcile and at times have done well – but he has gone back to the affair partner again and again. Last Dec. we found out she was pregnant and there is now a baby. We have been together for almost 26 years and have a 9 year old daughter. I am just not ok with this whole situation, and feel like I can’t move past me trying to “fix” the situation and end the destruction he has created. I feel very judged for standing by my marriage.
John (to All):
John (to All):
am I muted I think
Bridgette (to All):
Bridgette (to All):
horrible echo
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