Extramarital Affairs often involve revenge. Learn more about the typical behaviors exhibited by someone involved in a revenge affair.

Find out what our readers have to say about how Break Free From the Affair helped them deal with the extramarital affairs facing them:

It helped to realize some of the things that I shouldn’t be doing, or have done.
There were a lot of insights in this book that I really appreciated. My self esteem has been affected, and it was nice to know that this is a normal reaction…but misguided. I was turning this whole thing around to where I had fault…but it truly is about my husband and the choices he’s made.
So far, I’ve read the introduction and the appendices as suggested. I have learned to change some things I am doing and, surprisingly, found that I am doing things that seemed counterintuitive. Thanks!
I joined the gym, started and weight loss program and started caring more about me!
It has helped me understand mostly, the “why”, in an affair. Also by knowing the “why”, I’ve been able to release a lot of the pain and guilt.
I have been trying to get off the band wagon that it was solely my fault…and I needed suggestions on how to communicate since he stares off into space or is very secretive even though he does not live with me…
It’s given me a sense of clarity about the ordeal and how to approach the situation in a more productive way.
I have learned so much about how to seek what I need and what I did need but was not getting. I have learned that I cannot continue to give give give to try and get back what I am needing. I still have so much more to learn!
So far it has been a God send and I am reading and re-reading all I can to get the help I need to get through and out of this!
It helped me to understand that it wasn’t my fault.
knowing that my situation is almost exactly outlined in the book helps me to feel that it is not hopeless.
Break Free From the Affair helped me to accept what happened to us. What caused the situation to happen. Now we are working on forgiveness. I also learned to be less emotional for the most part. I really loved the book and it has helped me a lot. I’m still working on the spouse, he is coming along slowly but surely, I believe. Thank you so much for your insight.
I gained strength of self, knowing I am NOT crazy, knowing I am NOT alone!!! Thank you!
Helped me identify the type of affair and distance myself from my personal pain by analyzing it as a “type” of behavior commonly committed by many people. Also helped me know what to expect from my spouse in terms of potential behaviors.