Author Archives: Dr. Bob Huizenga

Making Shifts Help Build A Love You Can Trust

Posted on June 6, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Shifts happen. An awareness of your personal shifts and the capacity to guide and create shifts are a core element of building a love you can trust. Here are Key Points on shifts: A shift is any movement or change … Continue reading →

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A Key Healing Skill To Use In A Marital Crisis

Posted on June 3, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

In therapy and change theory an overarching process to help in the healing is technically called meta cognition. Meta-cognition is your capacity to enable a part of you to stand back and evaluate what you (or other parts of you) … Continue reading →

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11 Things You Are Able To Do In A Healthy Marriage

Posted on May 31, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Following are eleven characteristics of a healthy relationship as it moves through marital crisis. In a healthy marriage, you will be able to: 1. Stand back and see the larger picture 2. View your crisis from different perspectives 3. Have … Continue reading →

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I Want You To Develop A Lasting Emotional Connection

Posted on May 28, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

I want to help you experience that lasting emotional connection and intimacy in your marriage or relationship of emotional investment that brings powerful moments of personal and mutual satisfaction and joy without losing your personal freedom and personal power. I … Continue reading →

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Building a Love You Can Trust: 3 Key Points about Distinctions

Posted on May 25, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

I emphasize the power of making distinctions as you build a love you can trust. Making distinctions is the process of understanding, of peeling back the layers of the onion to see what’s beneath. Love is not an end process. … Continue reading →

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8 More Communication Blunders That Absolutely Destroy Intimacy

Posted on May 10, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

8 More communication mistakes that can destroy the intimacy in a marriage or relationship of investment. Continue reading →

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8 Communication Blunders that Absolutely Destroy Intimacy

Posted on May 5, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Are you making one of the common communication blunders that will destroy the intimacy in a marriage or partnership? Continue reading →

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Marriage Makeover Checklist: Dare to Be Honest

Posted on April 19, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Are there communication barriers in your marriage? Dr. Robert Huizenga will help you tear down the walls and rebuild healthy and powerful communication with your spouse or partner. Continue reading →

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How Do I Get Him to Talk?

Posted on April 11, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Learn more about infidelity and types of affair, particularly the “I Can’t Say No Type of affair,” which is typically associated with someone with addictive tendencies. Continue reading →

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Marriage Problems and Infidelity: Are You A Chaser?

Posted on March 29, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

When it comes to relationship or marriage problems, are you the chaser or distancer? Find out what it means to be a chaser and how this can backfire on you when attempting to get your partner back. Continue reading →

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