Author Archives: Dr. Bob Huizenga

Infidelity Advice From a Survivor

Posted on January 31, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Get infidelity advice from someone who has suffered through the pain of her cheating husbands extramarital affair. Continue reading →

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Infidelity: Get Your Cheating Spouse to Notice Your Power by Charging Neutral

Posted on January 20, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

How to get your cheating spouse to notice your power by charging neutral. Continue reading →

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Infidelity: How to Make it Through an Affair with Faith

Posted on January 18, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

A real life infidelity story about a man and father of four who endured the pain of infidelity by focusing on himself and his faith to make it through the nightmare. Continue reading →

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Holiday Tip #14: Focus on a Personal Challenge

Posted on December 24, 2010 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Tip #14 for surviving the holiday season during marital infidelity. Learn how to cope when there is conflict in the marriage during the holidays. Continue reading →

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Holiday Tip #13: Give

Posted on December 23, 2010 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Learn how to cope with the pain of infidelity or a troubled marriage during the holidays by giving. Continue reading →

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Holiday Tip #12: Pray or Meditate

Posted on December 22, 2010 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Praying and meditation can provide peace during the holiday season during a marital crisis. Continue reading →

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Holiday Tip #11: Get to Know You

Posted on December 21, 2010 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

11. Get to know you. Use the Holiday Season to get in touch with the real you. So much of our pain is often focused externally; what our spouse is doing, not doing; what we are getting or not getting … Continue reading →