Author Archives: Dr. Bob Huizenga

Finding Strength in the Midst of Infidelity and Tragedy

A woman endures one heartbreak after another as her husband cheats, leaves her, then tragically dies in a car accident. Through it all, she remained strong for her children. Continue reading

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Holiday Tips #5 and #6: Rubber Band and Calibrate Your Thinking

Emotionally survive the holidays during a marital crisis by following some simple tips from Dr. Robert Huizenga. Continue reading

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Confronting the Other Person and Affair #7

Learn the risk and reward of confronting someone involved in affair #7, “I Want to be Close to Someone, But I Can’t Stand Intimacy.” Continue reading

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Holiday Tip #4: Breathe and Notice

Learn how paying attention to your breathing can help to reduce stress during the holiday season and in the midst of marital crisis. Continue reading

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“I Need to Prove My Desirability” and Confronting the Other Person

When considering whether or not to confront the other person, one should determine which type of affair they are facing. Continue reading

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Holiday Tip #3: Accept and Maximize How You Cope

Learn how to emotionally cope with marriage turmoil during the holiday season, with Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach. Continue reading

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“I Want to Get Back at Him/Her” and Confronting the Other Person

Learn about how anger comes into play when considering confronting those involved in an “I want to get back at him/her” type of affair. Continue reading

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Holiday Tip #2: There is No Shame in Getting Help

Dr. Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach discusses getting the appropriate help for those who are facing marriage problems and find it difficult to cope during the holidays. Continue reading

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“I Fell Out of Love” and Confronting the Other Person

Learn about affair #4 and why confronting the other person in this type of affair might be a bad idea. Continue reading

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Holiday Tip #1: Examine Yourself

Learn how to emotionally survive the holidays in the midst of a marital crisis. Dr. Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach teaches you how to examine yourself. Continue reading

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