Author Archives: Dr. Bob Huizenga

Infidelity and the Revenge of Super Glue

Posted on January 11, 2010 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Women who have been had by a cheating spouse take matters into their own hands and “stick it to” the cheating spouse with Super Glue as the assault weapon. Continue reading →

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Infidelity and Forgiveness

Posted on November 30, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Forgiveness is difficult, especially when it comes to infidelity and an affair in a marriage. View this video and leave your comments. Continue reading →

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Marriage is Like a Horse Race

Posted on November 17, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

A little humor and much bad language comparing marriage to a horse race. Continue reading →

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Healing from Infidelity

Posted on October 7, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Healing and recovery from infidelity or an extramarital affair has twists and turns and moments of insight and shifts. Continue reading →

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Infidelity and Abuse

Posted on October 5, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Surviving the “I Don’t Want to Say No” or “I Can’t Say NO’ types of affairs means curtailing one’s attempt to save or reform the cheating spouse and move in another direction. Continue reading →

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Choices when Coping with Infidelity

Posted on October 5, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Coping with infidelity and facing it’s pain is a challenge. In facing infidelity and its pain, choices must be made. Some of those choices are the best one can do in the situation. Continue reading →

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Emotional Affair: Meeting his/her Needs is a Slippery Slope

Posted on August 25, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Emotional affairs or emotional infidelity is often looked upon in the psychological community as being the result of the spouse failing to meet his/her needs. Dr. Huizenga debunks this theory. Continue reading →

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What am I Willing to Tolerate and For How Long?

Posted on August 19, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Learn a 4 step process to identify what you tolerate and how to rid yourself of those tolerations in the realm of infidelity and an extramarital affair. Continue reading →

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What Patterns Do I Want to Break Free From?

Posted on August 19, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Infidelity is a catalyst for change and growth. Dr. Huizenga, the infidelity coach, guides you in the process of discerning the specifics of that growth. Continue reading →

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What am I Learning about Self/Others?

Posted on August 19, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

The trauma of infidelity serves as an opportunity and impetus for personal and relational growth. Learn how to frame this concept to make it bellievable. Continue reading →

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