Author Archives: Dr. Bob Huizenga

How Do I Confront My Spouse about the Affair?

Posted on August 8, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Dr. Huizenga, the infidelity coach, presents “How Do I Confront My Spouse about the Affair?” in his surviving infidelity video series. Continue reading →

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Surviving Infidelity: Should We Have Sex?

Posted on July 30, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Dr. Huizenga, the infidelity coach, presents video #7 in the Surviving Infidelity Series, “Should We Have Sex?” Continue reading →

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How Do I Get Rid of the Images?

Posted on July 28, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Dr. Huizenga, the infidelity coach, addresses the question most people who discover infidelity in their marriage: “How Do I Get Rid of the Images?” Continue reading →

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Do I Confront the OP?

Posted on July 26, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Dr. Huizenga, the infidelity coach, shares the results of his research on the confronting the other person and gives tips and recommendations regarding confronting the other woman or other man. Continue reading →

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How Do I Get Him/Her to Talk?

Posted on July 25, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

A person confronted with surviving infidelity is often confronted with the task of getting the cheating spouse to talk more. Dr. Huizenga – the infidelity coach – gives tips on opening lines of communication. Continue reading →

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Can I Stop the Affair?

Posted on July 24, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Dr. Huizenga, the infidelity Coach, explains why a wounded spouse cannot stop the affair, but can influence the progression of the affair. Continue reading →

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How to Get Rid of the Pain

Posted on July 23, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Surviving infidelity means finding ways to get rid of the pain. Dr. Huizenga – the infidelity coach – in this video presents tips on minimizing the pain for one surviving and affair. Continue reading →

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How Long Will the Pain Last?

Posted on July 22, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

How long will the pain last? is answered by Dr. Huizenga – The Infidelity Coach – in the this first video in a 20 video series on surviving infidelity. Continue reading →

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Surviving Infidelity: 2 Case Studies

Posted on June 29, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

surviving infidelity, the challenge that it is, offers healing from the affair and possibilities to survive the affair and rebuild the marriage. Continue reading →

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Surviving Infidelity: Charging Neutral

Posted on June 23, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Read this case study of a wounded wife surviving infidelity by charging neutral and extricating her daughter from triangulation. Continue reading →

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