Author Archives: Dr. Bob Huizenga

Drawing the Line on Internet Cheating?

Posted on September 14, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Where does one draw the line or cross the line of internet cheating or infidelity. Explore what readers have to say: Why is there so much porn out there! I consider myself to be a very liberal person, but my … Continue reading →

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Internet Fantasies and Cheating

Posted on September 12, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

More comments from readers. Note the pain and ambivalence in the last reader. The fantasy of it all, and the ease with which one can “pretend” to be anyone at all without face to face contact or daily interactions as … Continue reading →

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Social Media and Cheating

Posted on September 10, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

When is the line crossed in social media whereby infidelity or an affair begins? Please read comments from readers and leave a comment. What are they saying about current spouse to others? What is marriage coming to because of easy … Continue reading →

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Discovering Internet Infidelity

Posted on September 8, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

More responses from the survey. Leave your comments below, please. My wife has had an ongoing affair that fits the profile of “immature relationship – unfinished business” with a guy she met at a party who “friend-ed” her on Facebook. … Continue reading →

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Online Cheating Questions

Posted on September 6, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

My survey stirred a great response with many questions. Feel free to leave comments below to some of these questions: I believe that any effort to rekindle old “friendships” or forget new ones online (as by any other means) should … Continue reading →

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Internet Cheating Comments and Stories

Posted on September 4, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Many of my readers responded to a survey on internet cheating with questions. Please note: My husband had 3 affairs that way with internet, email sex and 3 others looking for men for his virginal trust with another man…I have … Continue reading →

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Stories, Questions and Concerns Regarding Internet Infidelity

Posted on September 2, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Here are more questions and concerns from readers about internet cheating and infidelity. I’d appreciate your comments and opinions regarding the following scenarios (or your own scenario involving internet cheating). How would you answer these questions? Have you experienced internet … Continue reading →

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The Power of Internet Cheating

Posted on August 31, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Internet “cheating” is rampant. The tools are many and varied. The results are sometimes sad. I asked my readers to comment on their experience with internet cheating. Here are just a few of the responses: My marriage fell victim to … Continue reading →

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How Do I Stop Obsessing About the Lies?

Posted on August 26, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Someone asked about obsessive thinking in my webinar. The transcription of my answer is below: Man:  I keep having to deal with obsessive thinking about the affair. Lies make you go around and around in your head. What do I … Continue reading →

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To Stay or Go?

Posted on August 25, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

A person asked this question in my webinar: Shall I go or stay when my husband is still with the other woman and is planning to meet her again? Here’s my response: I’m not sure it’s an issue of “Should … Continue reading →

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