Author Archives: Jan Stevens

After a Divorce: How the Inner and Outer Bodies Heal

Posted on September 25, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What do you need to do heal yourself after a divorce? There are many different ways that you can go about getting over a divorce or a break up. But understanding just how your physical body and your emotions are … Continue reading →

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Problems You Might Encounter When Rebuilding a Marriage

Posted on September 20, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What are the things one should expect when rebuilding a marriage? What particular problems or issues commonly arise when dealing with broken trust and crushed faith after infidelity? Plenty of couples choose to stay together and work on rebuilding the … Continue reading →

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The Other Person: What Roles Do They Play?

Posted on September 18, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What is it exactly that your partner sees in the other person? What are the things that they provide your partner that you are not able to? Most people who are victims of extramarital affairs tend to blame the other … Continue reading →

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Cheating vs Infidelity: What’s the Difference?

Posted on September 13, 2012 by Jan Stevens

How do people view cheating vs infidelity? Do people see cheating as something that’s different from infidelity? If they do, how are they different from one another? The thousand of couples who have undergone counseling and therapy sessions with Dr. … Continue reading →

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Getting Away From the Confusion in Infidelity

Posted on September 11, 2012 by Jan Stevens

“I want to be close to someone” is one of the seven types of affairs,and it is described as the one that brings about the confusion in infidelity the most compared to other six. Here’s what you need to know … Continue reading →

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Extramarital Affair: Should You Stay in the Marriage?

Posted on September 6, 2012 by Jan Stevens

When you see yourself being unable to decide whether or not to stay in the marriage upon discovering your partner’s extramarital affair, ask yourself if it really is what you want to do or if there’s some other reason why … Continue reading →

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After Infidelity: Fixing the Marriage by Identifying Barriers

Posted on September 4, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What are the things you need to know and understand to help you fix your marriage after infidelity? What issues, problems and barriers do you need to deal with? And what should you deal with first? Going through an extramarital … Continue reading →

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Stop the Affair and Heal the Marriage: Seven Strategies that will Show You How (Pt. 2)

Posted on August 30, 2012 by Jan Stevens

This second part of this series will discuss the seven strategies we talked about in the first blog post that will help you stop the affair, and heal the marriage and your life. 1. First thing you need to do … Continue reading →

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Stop the Affair and Heal the Marriage: Seven Strategies that will Show You How

Posted on August 28, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Are you looking for ways that you can save your marriage and stop the affair your partner is having? Then you don’t need to look any further because in this two-part blog post, we will discuss seven strategies you can … Continue reading →

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Unsatisfying Sex in Extramarital Affairs: Yes, It Is Possible

Posted on August 23, 2012 by Jan Stevens

I have worked with several people who had engaged in extramarital affairs, most of whom have said that they deeply regret being unfaithful to their partners and feel awful over what they did. There are two cases, in particular, where … Continue reading →

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