Author Archives: Jan Stevens

Confronting Infidelity: Why You Should Know the Details of the Affair

Posted on August 21, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Why is it important for you to be confronting infidelity? Finding out that your spouse is having an affair would make anyone go crazy, and one way that becomes a helpful way to cope and deal with it is by … Continue reading →

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Barriers in Saving the Marriage: How Holding on to the Past Hurts Your Present

Posted on August 16, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Does your past really affect your efforts in saving the marriage? How? Holding on to past hurts and problems is never a good idea. This is because no matter how noble your purpose is to leave everything in the past … Continue reading →

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Build Trust in Your Relationship: What To Do

Posted on August 14, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What can you do to help develop and build trust in your marriage? There are many ways that you can build trust in your relationship. Here are just a few simple tips you can do: 1. Be consistent in your actions, words, … Continue reading →

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Day After Valentine’s Day: What Really Happens in Unhappy Relationships?

Posted on August 9, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Here’s the truth of what really happens in unhappy relationships on the day after Valentine’s Day. An article in USA today reported that online websites that offer free memberships are to people who are married and are in unhappy relationships, … Continue reading →

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Letting Romance Fuel Your Life

Posted on August 7, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Romance is a huge influence in the type of affair called “I fell out of love… and just love being in love.” Most of the time, this type of affair begins when your partner feels “sparks” with the other person … Continue reading →

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Emotional Affairs: The Worst Kind of Heartbreak

Posted on August 2, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Sexual affairs or emotional affairs? What would you rather have to deal with? When you find out that your partner has been having an extramarital affair, the first thing you want to know, especially if you are a woman, is … Continue reading →

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Helping a Friend in an Infidelity Crisis: What to Do

Posted on July 31, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What can you do to help a friend who is the middle of an infidelity crisis? Here are a few things that have come up over the past years: They want someone to listen to them speak out what they … Continue reading →

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Sexual Addiction in Extramarital Affairs: What are the Facts? Part 2

Posted on July 26, 2012 by Jan Stevens

In the first part of this series about sexual addiction and infidelity, we discussed briefly how they affect each other and listed down three of the most common facts revolved around them. On this second part, we will point out … Continue reading →

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Sexual Addiction in Extramarital Affairs: What are the Facts?

Posted on July 24, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What do you need to know about sexual addiction and how it relates to extramarital affairs? Here are the facts. One of the seven different types of affairs – I can’t say no – is very closely associated with sexual … Continue reading →

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Spying on a Cheating Spouse: An Invasion of Privacy?

Posted on July 19, 2012 by Jan Stevens

When you find out about your partner’s extramarital affair through spying on him or her, it usually ends up in an ugly confrontation between the two of you where your partner will likely accuse you of doing a terrible offense. … Continue reading →

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