Author Archives: Jan Stevens

How Charging Neutral Can Rebuild the Trust in Your Marriage

Posted on June 12, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What benefits does charging neutral provide to your marriage after infidelity? Will you be able to fix your relationship? And more importantly, will you be able to trust your partner and yourself again? Developing trust, especially in marriages affected by … Continue reading →

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Developing Trust: Saying What You Mean and Meaning What You Say

Posted on June 7, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Developing trust in relationships isn’t as hard as people think. One simple way of doing this is by making sure that you mean the things you are saying. In developing trust, make sure that when you talk to your partner … Continue reading →

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How Saying NO Develops Trust in Relationships

Posted on June 5, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Can saying no really develop a relationship to be stronger and more mature? How is this possible? And how can you apply it in your own relationship? Saying no is not a bad thing. Allowing yourself to say no every … Continue reading →

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Conflict in Your Marriage: Should You Avoid It?

Posted on May 31, 2012 by Jan Stevens

How do you view conflict in your marriage? Do you welcome and acknowledge it when it has to happen, or do you avoid it completely? Do not be afraid to dig deep and have conflict in your marriage to deal … Continue reading →

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Understanding the Seven Different Types of Affairs

Posted on May 29, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What are the seven different types of affairs? How do they begin and how do they develop? Having a deeper knowledge of the types of affairs will help you understand your partner’s actions better. Knowing why your husband or wife … Continue reading →

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The Key to Moving Forward After the Affair

Posted on May 24, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Are there things we can do to make sure that we are moving forward after our partner’s infidelity? What are these things? Going through infidelity is difficult for everyone, no matter the situation, and moving forward from a situation like … Continue reading →

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Jealousy: A Tool for Stronger Relationships?

Posted on May 22, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What creates stronger relationships? Are there things you can do or practice that will help you and your partner create one? You will be able to find all sorts of different relationship advice posted on the internet that promises to … Continue reading →

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Rebuilding the Relationship: Making Sure It Works

Posted on May 15, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What does it take to make sure that rebuilding the relationship or marriage will work after infidelity gets in the middle of it? A lot of couples have succeeded in rebuilding the relationship, but not after a few bumps in … Continue reading →

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Infidelity Counseling: Why Men Avoid Marital Therapy

Posted on May 10, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Why are men so against infidelity counseling, especially when they’re the ones who have done the cheating? Most of the time, when a couple goes in for infidelity counseling or marital therapy to try to rebuild their marriage after an … Continue reading →

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Details of the Affair: Why Isn’t He/She Telling Me?

Posted on May 8, 2012 by Jan Stevens

How important is it to know the details of the affair? When infidelity occurs in the marriage, it is common for the victim to demand to know the details of the affair – asking what happened, when, where and how … Continue reading →

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