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This knowledge Will Save Your Sanity and Maybe Marriage
Discovering the TRUTH about infidelity will provide comfort, set you free and help you develop your plan of action. All affairs are not alike. Affairs are different depending on • the motivation • personality factors • and personal history of … Continue reading
Getting Him To Talk
It’s often like pulling teeth… or worse. And, you want it so badly… • To know what he thinks • A connection – something! • You’ve tried everything • You feel so alone and rejected 90% of those I coach … Continue reading
You Really are Normal!
I often reflect: What is about what I do that people find so liberating and helpful? Here’s what I think it is: I help those suffering from marriage crisis (or any crisis, really) to feel normal; they are not defective … Continue reading
Key #1 to Infidelity Recovery: Stop Doing What You are Doing
Key Point: An affair is built upon tension. Tension fuels an affair, not love; nothing else. And, that tension resides most powerfully between husband, wife and the affair partner. (Learn more about the nature of this tension in the Infidelity … Continue reading
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Infidelity: How Do You Get Rid of the Pain?
I don’t want to go into detail regarding the fact that you feel pain. YOU FEEL the PAIN! It is a given. It is real. It consumes your days and destroys sleep at night. Hands down, the discovery of infidelity … Continue reading
What is a Good Apology from the Cheating Spouse?
How do you know if your significant other is truly sorry for what s/he did? Frequently, in my coaching sessions, I hear the betrayed spouse wanting and needing to feel that the cheating spouse is truly sorry. In some cases … Continue reading
Marriage advice to Keep on Track to Save Your Marriage
Marriage Advice Saving your Marriage It is difficult to maintain your self respect as you try to save your broken marriage. You easily doubt yourself, your role in the marriage and go through a litany of “what ifs.” You wonder … Continue reading
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Infidelity in Your Marriage: Stop the Devastation by Knowing the Type of Affair
You didn’t ever think infidelity would happen to you! But now Infidelity invades your marriage or significant relationship. The affair, the secrets, the betrayal and the loss of love and affection happened to others but not to you. But you … Continue reading
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