Category Archives: Emotional Distance

Emotional Affair: Meeting his/her Needs is a Slippery Slope

Posted on August 25, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Emotional affairs or emotional infidelity is often looked upon in the psychological community as being the result of the spouse failing to meet his/her needs. Dr. Huizenga debunks this theory. Continue reading →

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What am I Willing to Tolerate and For How Long?

Posted on August 19, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Learn a 4 step process to identify what you tolerate and how to rid yourself of those tolerations in the realm of infidelity and an extramarital affair. Continue reading →

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What Patterns Do I Want to Break Free From?

Posted on August 19, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Infidelity is a catalyst for change and growth. Dr. Huizenga, the infidelity coach, guides you in the process of discerning the specifics of that growth. Continue reading →

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What am I Learning about Self/Others?

Posted on August 19, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

The trauma of infidelity serves as an opportunity and impetus for personal and relational growth. Learn how to frame this concept to make it bellievable. Continue reading →

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Do I Truly Want to be Married to Him/Her?

Posted on August 19, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Healing from infidelity and saving your marriage only comes about as you first address THE most important question. Learn why this question is vital. Continue reading →

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What is My Strategy for this Type of Affair?

Posted on August 19, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Breaking free from the affair demands the capacity to determine the type of affair, or type of infidelity and plan an infidelity strategy for that type of affair. Continue reading →

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What Do I Think About in My Worst Moments?

Posted on August 18, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Taking a look at the content of your worst moment or the underling desire of your pain may be extremely helpful in the initial stages of coping with infidelity and the affair. Continue reading →

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This 3 Step Awareness Helps You Move From Reactivity to Power in Marriage

Posted on August 17, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Surviving infidelity means asking: “What gets triggered in me?” This question, one of 10 questions in Dr. Huizenga’s Q&A series on surviving infidelity, helps you move from a reactive to active mode. Continue reading →

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4 Types of Affairs that Require Self Protection

Posted on August 17, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Surviving infidelity means you may need to protect yourself. Dr. Huizenga, the infidelity coach, looks at concerns about self protection in specific types of affairs. Continue reading →

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Where Do You Go for Support and Help?

Posted on August 17, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Dr. Huizenga, the infidelity coach, explores the issue of getting support and help in his Surviving Infidelity video series. Continue reading →

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