Category Archives: Infidelity Pain

What is My Strategy for this Type of Affair?

Breaking free from the affair demands the capacity to determine the type of affair, or type of infidelity and plan an infidelity strategy for that type of affair. Continue reading

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What Do I Think About in My Worst Moments?

Taking a look at the content of your worst moment or the underling desire of your pain may be extremely helpful in the initial stages of coping with infidelity and the affair. Continue reading

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This 3 Step Awareness Helps You Move From Reactivity to Power in Marriage

Surviving infidelity means asking: “What gets triggered in me?” This question, one of 10 questions in Dr. Huizenga’s Q&A series on surviving infidelity, helps you move from a reactive to active mode. Continue reading

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Where Do You Go for Support and Help?

Dr. Huizenga, the infidelity coach, explores the issue of getting support and help in his Surviving Infidelity video series. Continue reading

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What if S/he Continues Seeing the OP?

The question: Continue reading

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Will I Ever Trust Again?

Dr. Huizenga, the infidelity coach, answers in his Surviving infidelity video series the question, “Will I Ever Trust Again?” Continue reading

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Dr. Huizenga Interview

Hear Dr. Huizenga’s interview with Amy Waterman on how you can break free from the affair. Continue reading

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How Do I Confront My Spouse about the Affair?

Dr. Huizenga, the infidelity coach, presents “How Do I Confront My Spouse about the Affair?” in his surviving infidelity video series. Continue reading

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How Do I Get Rid of the Images?

Dr. Huizenga, the infidelity coach, addresses the question most people who discover infidelity in their marriage: “How Do I Get Rid of the Images?” Continue reading

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How Do I Get Him/Her to Talk?

A person confronted with surviving infidelity is often confronted with the task of getting the cheating spouse to talk more. Dr. Huizenga – the infidelity coach – gives tips on opening lines of communication. Continue reading

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