Category Archives: Infidelity Pain

To Stay or Go?

Posted on August 25, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

A person asked this question in my webinar: Shall I go or stay when my husband is still with the other woman and is planning to meet her again? Here’s my response: I’m not sure it’s an issue of “Should … Continue reading →

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Can I Trust Again? Or…Too Much Damage?

Posted on August 23, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

This is part 2 of my transcript on trust with Nat. Her second question relates to the amount of damage and her capacity to trust and rebuild. Nat:  Part of that is, is there is a point when there’s been … Continue reading →

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Traditional Self Help is Limited – Part 3

Posted on July 1, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Here are some responses from my readers to the list I posted previously about self help strategies (I listed 8) being limited: I think many people, me included, know that all that lovey-dovey crap isn’t going to help them through … Continue reading →

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A Key Healing Skill To Use In A Marital Crisis

Posted on June 3, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

In therapy and change theory an overarching process to help in the healing is technically called meta cognition. Meta-cognition is your capacity to enable a part of you to stand back and evaluate what you (or other parts of you) … Continue reading →

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Building a Love You Can Trust: 3 Key Points about Distinctions

Posted on May 25, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

I emphasize the power of making distinctions as you build a love you can trust. Making distinctions is the process of understanding, of peeling back the layers of the onion to see what’s beneath. Love is not an end process. … Continue reading →

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Marriage Problems and Infidelity: Are You A Chaser?

Posted on March 29, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

When it comes to relationship or marriage problems, are you the chaser or distancer? Find out what it means to be a chaser and how this can backfire on you when attempting to get your partner back. Continue reading →

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Infidelity Discovery: From Devastation to Optimism

Posted on February 8, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Follow a real life infidelity survivor on their journey from the devastation of infidelity discovery to hope, empowerment and optimism. Continue reading →

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Break Free From the Infidelity Triangle

Posted on February 3, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Learn how to break free from the infidelity triangle, with Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach. Continue reading →

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Infidelity Advice From a Survivor

Posted on January 31, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Get infidelity advice from someone who has suffered through the pain of her cheating husbands extramarital affair. Continue reading →

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Infidelity: How to Make it Through an Affair with Faith

Posted on January 18, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

A real life infidelity story about a man and father of four who endured the pain of infidelity by focusing on himself and his faith to make it through the nightmare. Continue reading →

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