Category Archives: Relationship Communication

Confronting the Other Person and Affair #7

Learn the risk and reward of confronting someone involved in affair #7, “I Want to be Close to Someone, But I Can’t Stand Intimacy.” Continue reading

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Confronting the Other Person: “I Can’t Say No” Type of Affair

Learn about affair #2, “I Can’t Say No,” and confronting the other person. Continue reading

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Does Plastic Surgery Increase the Likelihood of Infidelity?

Does the outcome of a spouse undergoing plastic surgery make him/her more likely to cheat? This question, which is addressed by one of Dr. Huizenga’s readers, explores the topic of plastic surgery and infidelity. Continue reading

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Overcoming Infidelity in Marriage: Where’s Your Focus?

When confronted with infidelity in a marriage, where should you focus your attention? Jeryl Swantack addresses the issue of shifting focus during an infidelity crisis. Continue reading

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Guy Gets Revenge on Wife With Cement Truck

A hilarious video that will make you realize how important it is to get your facts straight before taking revenge on your suspected cheating spouse. Continue reading

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Infidelity Fears Exist Under Your Pain and Agony Once You Bump Into D-Day (day of discovery)

Did the discovery of infidelity uncover fears? Find out how to deal with that fear from Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach. Continue reading

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How to Start the Healing with Charging Neutral

Whether it is a cheating husband or a cheating wife one great solution to infidelity issues is charging neutral. This experience showed a way of dealing with infidelity wherein the couple was able to talk openly and honestly. Learn the charging neutral skill, and see how it can help you deal with infidelity. Continue reading

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Healing from Infidelity

Healing and recovery from infidelity or an extramarital affair has twists and turns and moments of insight and shifts. Continue reading

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How Do I Get Him/Her to Talk?

A person confronted with surviving infidelity is often confronted with the task of getting the cheating spouse to talk more. Dr. Huizenga – the infidelity coach – gives tips on opening lines of communication. Continue reading

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Surviving Infidelity: 2 Case Studies

surviving infidelity, the challenge that it is, offers healing from the affair and possibilities to survive the affair and rebuild the marriage. Continue reading

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