The Price of a Secret…and the price of a previous affair
Is she suspicious of his “possible” affair because she had one previously?

Dear Dr. Bob,

My husband seems on the up and up that he is not having an affair. I have had an affair before. could this be the reason i am feeling like he is cheating? All of his hours of work are accounted for and he is always home on time. He never goes anywhere without me. Do i just have a guilty conscience?

My response:

Dear Reader,

Decades ago it was called “projection” – putting on other people those things that are really stirring in ourselves. Maybe that is happening.

But, let’s look at a couple other angles.