Myths about Infidelity and Affairs are Exposed
Common myths about infidelity and affairs abound. Such myths and misunderstandings get in the way of healing from infidelity and the extramarital affair. Dr. Huizenga looks at 5 common myths.
Also presented are Dr. Huizenga’s live Coaching Tape Series with coaching clients that touches upon the My Marriage Made Me Do It type of affair.
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Explode and Implode 5 Powerful Affair Myths
Affairs are simple. They are about falling out of love with my partner and in love with someone else.
Wrong: Affairs are exceedingly complex. I list 7 different and complex affairs in my e-book.
Affairs include sex.
Wrong. Not all affairs are sexual. Sexual intercourse may ruin one kind.
Affairs are about how love “should be.”
Wrong: Affairs are acts of temporary insanity.
If your spouse has an affair you should throw the bum (bummette) out.
Wrong: 95% of betrayed spouses want to keep the marriage.
Affairs are about falling “in love” with someone else.
Wrong: Affairs have NOTHING to do with love and everything to do with latent personal neediness.
How to deal with the teeth-clinching, locked-jaw frustration of being so close and yet so farGarrett describes coping with the “My Marriage Made Me Do It” affair.
Her “vile rage” is periodically directed at him.
Control and power are prominent as the two attempt to move ahead. Garrett is usually the pursuer and she withdraws or withholds, which, of course, frustrates Garrett, to say the least.
However, a part of Garrett wants to save the marriage, especially on rare occasions when her barriers fall and he gets a glimpse of the fear underlying the anger.
When Garrett feels like he is being jerked around, which is most of the time, he thinks of taking immediate action, file for divorce and abruptly end the marriage.
Coaching progressed to the difference between resolution and reconciliation and intermediary steps he might possibly take to move ahead with clarity and purpose.
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