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This knowledge Will Save Your Sanity and Maybe Marriage

Posted on April 20, 2021 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Discovering the TRUTH about infidelity will provide comfort, set you free and help you develop your plan of action. All affairs are not alike. Affairs are different depending on • the motivation • personality factors • and personal history of … Continue reading →

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Getting Him To Talk

Posted on March 19, 2021 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

It’s often like pulling teeth… or worse. And, you want it so badly… • To know what he thinks • A connection – something! • You’ve tried everything • You feel so alone and rejected 90% of those I coach … Continue reading →

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Infidelity in Your Marriage: Stop the Devastation by Knowing the Type of Affair

Posted on July 25, 2013 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

You didn’t ever think infidelity would happen to you! But now Infidelity invades your marriage or significant relationship. The affair, the secrets, the betrayal and the loss of love and affection happened to others but not to you. But you … Continue reading →

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4 Reasons an Affair or Marital Crisis Kills your Self Esteem

Posted on April 23, 2013 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Nothing tears at your self esteem and sense of well being more than a marital crisis. The question is often posed to me by someone in the midst of a painful relationship upheaval: “What did I do wrong?” You assume … Continue reading →

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Infidelity Pain: The Key to Hurting Less

Posted on April 20, 2013 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

A marriage crisis brings all your pain and hurt, seemingly buried for years, screaming at you. You are in pain! You are in a ton of hurt. The pain can be incredible, debilitating and persistent: It just won’t let you … Continue reading →

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Honesty in Marriage: How You Can Heal Your Marriage by Revealing Your Infidelity

Posted on October 30, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Is there a difference between revealing your infidelity to your partner and allowing him or her to find out from another person or source? Yes, there definitely is! You may think that it’s all the same, that he or she … Continue reading →

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Saving the Marriage by Healing the Past

Posted on October 25, 2012 by Jan Stevens

There are plenty of things that need to be dealt with when you are saving the marriage after infidelity. Although trust is a major issue that the couple needs to handle, it is not the only one. A common problem … Continue reading →

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Signs of a Cheating Spouse: What You Need to Know

Posted on October 23, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What are the things that you need to know to be able to tell the difference between the signs of a cheating spouse and infidelity? Extramarital affairs and sexual encounters are not done to form or experience intimacy or some … Continue reading →

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Extramarital Affair Crisis: When Is Counseling A Good Idea?

Posted on October 16, 2012 by Jan Stevens

There are plenty of couples who have experienced going through an extramarital affair crisis, and most of those couples who do decide to stay together and try to fix their marriages. But when is the proper time for you to … Continue reading →

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Facing the Consequences of Extramarital Affairs

Posted on October 11, 2012 by Jan Stevens

One of the things that always becomes an issue for people who have had extramarital affairs is deciding between telling their partners what they did and keeping it to themselves, which is a decision that only they can make on … Continue reading →

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