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Making Shifts Help Build A Love You Can Trust

Shifts happen. An awareness of your personal shifts and the capacity to guide and create shifts are a core element of building a love you can trust. Here are Key Points on shifts: A shift is any movement or change … Continue reading

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A Key Healing Skill To Use In A Marital Crisis

In therapy and change theory an overarching process to help in the healing is technically called meta cognition. Meta-cognition is your capacity to enable a part of you to stand back and evaluate what you (or other parts of you) … Continue reading

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11 Things You Are Able To Do In A Healthy Marriage

Following are eleven characteristics of a healthy relationship as it moves through marital crisis. In a healthy marriage, you will be able to: 1. Stand back and see the larger picture 2. View your crisis from different perspectives 3. Have … Continue reading

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I Want You To Develop A Lasting Emotional Connection

I want to help you experience that lasting emotional connection and intimacy in your marriage or relationship of emotional investment that brings powerful moments of personal and mutual satisfaction and joy without losing your personal freedom and personal power. I … Continue reading

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Building a Love You Can Trust: 3 Key Points about Distinctions

I emphasize the power of making distinctions as you build a love you can trust. Making distinctions is the process of understanding, of peeling back the layers of the onion to see what’s beneath. Love is not an end process. … Continue reading

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Confronting the Other Person and the Emotional Affair

Dr. Huizenga interviews Linda in this webinar on the topic of confronting the other person in an emotional affair. Continue reading

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Confronting the Other Person and the 7 Types of Affairs

Should you confront the other person is addressed in this webinar by Dr. Huizenga, the Infidelity Coach Continue reading

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The Gender Whys of Infidelity

Dealing with the issue of gender and infidelity. Continue reading

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What am I Learning about Self/Others?

The trauma of infidelity serves as an opportunity and impetus for personal and relational growth. Learn how to frame this concept to make it bellievable. Continue reading

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Do I Truly Want to be Married to Him/Her?

Healing from infidelity and saving your marriage only comes about as you first address THE most important question. Learn why this question is vital. Continue reading

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