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This knowledge Will Save Your Sanity and Maybe Marriage

Posted on April 20, 2021 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Discovering the TRUTH about infidelity will provide comfort, set you free and help you develop your plan of action. All affairs are not alike. Affairs are different depending on • the motivation • personality factors • and personal history of … Continue reading →

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Key #1 to Infidelity Recovery: Stop Doing What You are Doing

Posted on February 25, 2021 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Key Point: An affair is built upon tension. Tension fuels an affair, not love; nothing else. And, that tension resides most powerfully between husband, wife and the affair partner. (Learn more about the nature of this tension in the Infidelity … Continue reading →

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Unsatisfying Sex in Extramarital Affairs: Yes, It Is Possible

Posted on August 23, 2012 by Jan Stevens

I have worked with several people who had engaged in extramarital affairs, most of whom have said that they deeply regret being unfaithful to their partners and feel awful over what they did. There are two cases, in particular, where … Continue reading →

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Confronting Infidelity: Why You Should Know the Details of the Affair

Posted on August 21, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Why is it important for you to be confronting infidelity? Finding out that your spouse is having an affair would make anyone go crazy, and one way that becomes a helpful way to cope and deal with it is by … Continue reading →

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Understanding the Seven Different Types of Affairs

Posted on May 29, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What are the seven different types of affairs? How do they begin and how do they develop? Having a deeper knowledge of the types of affairs will help you understand your partner’s actions better. Knowing why your husband or wife … Continue reading →

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The Key to Moving Forward After the Affair

Posted on May 24, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Are there things we can do to make sure that we are moving forward after our partner’s infidelity? What are these things? Going through infidelity is difficult for everyone, no matter the situation, and moving forward from a situation like … Continue reading →

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Details of the Affair: Why Isn’t He/She Telling Me?

Posted on May 8, 2012 by Jan Stevens

How important is it to know the details of the affair? When infidelity occurs in the marriage, it is common for the victim to demand to know the details of the affair – asking what happened, when, where and how … Continue reading →

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Discovering Internet Infidelity

Posted on September 8, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

More responses from the survey. Leave your comments below, please. My wife has had an ongoing affair that fits the profile of “immature relationship – unfinished business” with a guy she met at a party who “friend-ed” her on Facebook. … Continue reading →

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Traditional Self Help is Limited – Part 3

Posted on July 1, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Here are some responses from my readers to the list I posted previously about self help strategies (I listed 8) being limited: I think many people, me included, know that all that lovey-dovey crap isn’t going to help them through … Continue reading →

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Speaking your “Voice” to Your Spouse – Part 2

Posted on June 28, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Here are some more key points about using your personal power and speaking your voice to your spouse: You need not be loud and when you speak your voice. A quiet, calm, yet coming from within you voice, holds the … Continue reading →

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