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This knowledge Will Save Your Sanity and Maybe Marriage

Posted on April 20, 2021 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Discovering the TRUTH about infidelity will provide comfort, set you free and help you develop your plan of action. All affairs are not alike. Affairs are different depending on • the motivation • personality factors • and personal history of … Continue reading →

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4 Shifts you Must Make to EFFECTIVELY Deal with Infidelity

Posted on December 4, 2014 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

If you are like most, you feel like a Basket Case when first confronted by infidelity in your marriage or relationship. And, you typically engage in the 6 Killer Mistakes that Most Make that are Guaranteed to Prolong the Affair … Continue reading →

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You’re OK Exactly Where You Are

Posted on June 26, 2014 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Part of the healing from infidelity and cheating is being able to “see through” the cheating behavior as the cheating spouse’s problem. Yes, this is easier said than done; especially early in the process of healing and moving on. How … Continue reading →

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What is a Good Apology from the Cheating Spouse?

Posted on February 13, 2014 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

How do you know if your significant other is truly sorry for what s/he did? Frequently, in my coaching sessions, I hear the betrayed spouse wanting and needing to feel that the cheating spouse is truly sorry. In some cases … Continue reading →

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Honesty in Marriage: How You Can Heal Your Marriage by Revealing Your Infidelity

Posted on October 30, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Is there a difference between revealing your infidelity to your partner and allowing him or her to find out from another person or source? Yes, there definitely is! You may think that it’s all the same, that he or she … Continue reading →

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Saving the Marriage by Healing the Past

Posted on October 25, 2012 by Jan Stevens

There are plenty of things that need to be dealt with when you are saving the marriage after infidelity. Although trust is a major issue that the couple needs to handle, it is not the only one. A common problem … Continue reading →

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Extramarital Affair Crisis: When Is Counseling A Good Idea?

Posted on October 16, 2012 by Jan Stevens

There are plenty of couples who have experienced going through an extramarital affair crisis, and most of those couples who do decide to stay together and try to fix their marriages. But when is the proper time for you to … Continue reading →

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Mid-Life Crisis: What It Can Do to Your Marriage

Posted on October 9, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Mid-life crisis and your marriage. For a lot of relationships, a mid-life crisis could lead to irrational and bad decisions regarding infidelity and other people, and eventually, to divorce. Extramarital affairs are a possibility in every relationship or marriage, no … Continue reading →

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Infidelity Details: Reasons Why They’re Kept Hidden

Posted on October 4, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Most people want to know every single one of the infidelity details of what happened when they discover that their partner was involved in an extramarital affair. When, where, why and what happened? We all have our reasons for wanting … Continue reading →

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Trust After Infidelity: Can You Do It?

Posted on October 2, 2012 by Jan Stevens

The most common problem that people face once they find out that their spouse has cheated on them is deciding whether or not they are capable of forgiving their spouse and, if they do, if they are able to trust … Continue reading →

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