Tag Archives: emotional affair

Getting Him To Talk

Posted on March 19, 2021 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

It’s often like pulling teeth… or worse. And, you want it so badly… • To know what he thinks • A connection – something! • You’ve tried everything • You feel so alone and rejected 90% of those I coach … Continue reading →

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Key #1 to Infidelity Recovery: Stop Doing What You are Doing

Posted on February 25, 2021 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Key Point: An affair is built upon tension. Tension fuels an affair, not love; nothing else. And, that tension resides most powerfully between husband, wife and the affair partner. (Learn more about the nature of this tension in the Infidelity … Continue reading →

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You are Not a Bad Person

Posted on January 3, 2013 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

This continues my speaking to the distant or pulling away spouse or partner… Often the distancing spouse is viewed as the “bad” person. You are perhaps fearful that others look at you and see you as not “trying” to make … Continue reading →

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Letting Romance Fuel Your Life

Posted on August 7, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Romance is a huge influence in the type of affair called “I fell out of love… and just love being in love.” Most of the time, this type of affair begins when your partner feels “sparks” with the other person … Continue reading →

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Emotional Affairs: The Worst Kind of Heartbreak

Posted on August 2, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Sexual affairs or emotional affairs? What would you rather have to deal with? When you find out that your partner has been having an extramarital affair, the first thing you want to know, especially if you are a woman, is … Continue reading →

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Clues of an Emotional Affair

Posted on March 30, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What are the clues of an emotional affair? There have been plenty of response from people who have gone through the agony of watching their partner go through an emotional affair, and they want to share with everyone some of … Continue reading →

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“I Fell Out of Love” and Confronting the Other Person

Posted on November 29, 2010 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Learn about affair #4 and why confronting the other person in this type of affair might be a bad idea. Continue reading →

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Confronting the Other Person and the Emotional Affair

Posted on November 4, 2010 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Dr. Huizenga interviews Linda in this webinar on the topic of confronting the other person in an emotional affair. Continue reading →

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The Emotional Affair

Posted on January 19, 2010 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

How does one know if s/he is involved in an emotional affair? This video serves as a good introduction to that topic. Continue reading →

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Emotional Affair: Meeting his/her Needs is a Slippery Slope

Posted on August 25, 2009 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Emotional affairs or emotional infidelity is often looked upon in the psychological community as being the result of the spouse failing to meet his/her needs. Dr. Huizenga debunks this theory. Continue reading →

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