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Key #1 to Infidelity Recovery: Stop Doing What You are Doing

Posted on February 25, 2021 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Key Point: An affair is built upon tension. Tension fuels an affair, not love; nothing else. And, that tension resides most powerfully between husband, wife and the affair partner. (Learn more about the nature of this tension in the Infidelity … Continue reading →

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4 Critical Steps to Infidelity Recovery

Posted on January 17, 2020 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

You can survive infidelity in your marriage and recover. But infidelity recovery does not happen by chance. Learn how to go through the infidelity recovery process that leaves nothing to chance. Resources, support and the materials you must have are found in the Infidelity Recovery Center. Follow the 4 Critical Steps for Infidelity Recovery. Continue reading →

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8 Questions to Ask Yourself When Struggling with the Pain of Infidelity

Posted on April 7, 2015 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

A member of my Facebook Infidelity Support Group shared a beautiful post yesterday, in which she has challenged group members to ask themselves some tough, yet important questions. This group member is someone who has come a very long way … Continue reading →

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You’re OK Exactly Where You Are

Posted on June 26, 2014 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Part of the healing from infidelity and cheating is being able to “see through” the cheating behavior as the cheating spouse’s problem. Yes, this is easier said than done; especially early in the process of healing and moving on. How … Continue reading →

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Infidelity in Marriage: Key Points in Infidelity Recovery

Posted on August 12, 2013 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Infidelity in Marriage: More key points about infidelity that help you through recovery. Key Point #2: Infidelity isn’t the end of the world Infidelity is discovered and it feels like your world is coming to an end. Yes, it feels … Continue reading →

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Facing the Consequences of Extramarital Affairs

Posted on October 11, 2012 by Jan Stevens

One of the things that always becomes an issue for people who have had extramarital affairs is deciding between telling their partners what they did and keeping it to themselves, which is a decision that only they can make on … Continue reading →

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Mid-Life Crisis: What It Can Do to Your Marriage

Posted on October 9, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Mid-life crisis and your marriage. For a lot of relationships, a mid-life crisis could lead to irrational and bad decisions regarding infidelity and other people, and eventually, to divorce. Extramarital affairs are a possibility in every relationship or marriage, no … Continue reading →

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Getting Away From the Confusion in Infidelity

Posted on September 11, 2012 by Jan Stevens

“I want to be close to someone” is one of the seven types of affairs,and it is described as the one that brings about the confusion in infidelity the most compared to other six. Here’s what you need to know … Continue reading →

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Unsatisfying Sex in Extramarital Affairs: Yes, It Is Possible

Posted on August 23, 2012 by Jan Stevens

I have worked with several people who had engaged in extramarital affairs, most of whom have said that they deeply regret being unfaithful to their partners and feel awful over what they did. There are two cases, in particular, where … Continue reading →

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Confronting Infidelity: Why You Should Know the Details of the Affair

Posted on August 21, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Why is it important for you to be confronting infidelity? Finding out that your spouse is having an affair would make anyone go crazy, and one way that becomes a helpful way to cope and deal with it is by … Continue reading →

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