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11 Ways Worry Kills Your Marriage

Posted on June 8, 2013 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Worry is fretting. Worry is bound by fearful thoughts. Worry is being nervous, uptight or anxious. Worry feels threatened. Worry is a bundle of nerves. This anxiety gets in your way. It becomes a detriment. It only contributes to more … Continue reading →

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Saving the Marriage by Healing the Past

Posted on October 25, 2012 by Jan Stevens

There are plenty of things that need to be dealt with when you are saving the marriage after infidelity. Although trust is a major issue that the couple needs to handle, it is not the only one. A common problem … Continue reading →

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Extramarital Affair Crisis: When Is Counseling A Good Idea?

Posted on October 16, 2012 by Jan Stevens

There are plenty of couples who have experienced going through an extramarital affair crisis, and most of those couples who do decide to stay together and try to fix their marriages. But when is the proper time for you to … Continue reading →

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Facing the Consequences of Extramarital Affairs

Posted on October 11, 2012 by Jan Stevens

One of the things that always becomes an issue for people who have had extramarital affairs is deciding between telling their partners what they did and keeping it to themselves, which is a decision that only they can make on … Continue reading →

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Trust After Infidelity: Can You Do It?

Posted on October 2, 2012 by Jan Stevens

The most common problem that people face once they find out that their spouse has cheated on them is deciding whether or not they are capable of forgiving their spouse and, if they do, if they are able to trust … Continue reading →

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Crisis of Divorce: The Things You Need to Get Through It

Posted on September 27, 2012 by Jan Stevens

It is never an easy situation to be in when you are going through a crisis of divorce or break up. But the things you need to get through a crisis like this are easy to come by, and you … Continue reading →

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Problems You Might Encounter When Rebuilding a Marriage

Posted on September 20, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What are the things one should expect when rebuilding a marriage? What particular problems or issues commonly arise when dealing with broken trust and crushed faith after infidelity? Plenty of couples choose to stay together and work on rebuilding the … Continue reading →

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The Other Person: What Roles Do They Play?

Posted on September 18, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What is it exactly that your partner sees in the other person? What are the things that they provide your partner that you are not able to? Most people who are victims of extramarital affairs tend to blame the other … Continue reading →

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Cheating vs Infidelity: What’s the Difference?

Posted on September 13, 2012 by Jan Stevens

How do people view cheating vs infidelity? Do people see cheating as something that’s different from infidelity? If they do, how are they different from one another? The thousand of couples who have undergone counseling and therapy sessions with Dr. … Continue reading →

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Extramarital Affair: Should You Stay in the Marriage?

Posted on September 6, 2012 by Jan Stevens

When you see yourself being unable to decide whether or not to stay in the marriage upon discovering your partner’s extramarital affair, ask yourself if it really is what you want to do or if there’s some other reason why … Continue reading →

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