Tag Archives: Surviving Infidelity

Key #1 to Infidelity Recovery: Stop Doing What You are Doing

Posted on February 25, 2021 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Key Point: An affair is built upon tension. Tension fuels an affair, not love; nothing else. And, that tension resides most powerfully between husband, wife and the affair partner. (Learn more about the nature of this tension in the Infidelity … Continue reading →

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4 Critical Steps to Infidelity Recovery

Posted on January 17, 2020 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

You can survive infidelity in your marriage and recover. But infidelity recovery does not happen by chance. Learn how to go through the infidelity recovery process that leaves nothing to chance. Resources, support and the materials you must have are found in the Infidelity Recovery Center. Follow the 4 Critical Steps for Infidelity Recovery. Continue reading →

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Infidelity: How Do You Get Rid of the Pain?

Posted on November 9, 2015 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

I don’t want to go into detail regarding the fact that you feel pain. YOU FEEL the PAIN! It is a given.  It is real. It consumes your days and destroys sleep at night. Hands down, the discovery of infidelity … Continue reading →

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8 Questions to Ask Yourself When Struggling with the Pain of Infidelity

Posted on April 7, 2015 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

A member of my Facebook Infidelity Support Group shared a beautiful post yesterday, in which she has challenged group members to ask themselves some tough, yet important questions. This group member is someone who has come a very long way … Continue reading →

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21 Life Lessons from an Infidelity Survivor

Posted on April 7, 2015 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

I have an amazing Infidelity Support Group on Facebook, in which members join to both heal themselves and help others heal. It’s truly a remarkable group of people. From time to time I stumble upon a post that really resonates … Continue reading →

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7 Powerful Steps you MUST Take to Recover from Infidelity

Posted on July 14, 2014 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Here’s a basic outline of general steps I’ve seen thousands take over the past years as they face and recover from the affair. Briefly, here’s a skeleton, my beginning point, for the 7 steps to affair recovery. 1. You discover … Continue reading →

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Saving the Marriage by Healing the Past

Posted on October 25, 2012 by Jan Stevens

There are plenty of things that need to be dealt with when you are saving the marriage after infidelity. Although trust is a major issue that the couple needs to handle, it is not the only one. A common problem … Continue reading →

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Signs of a Cheating Spouse: What You Need to Know

Posted on October 23, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What are the things that you need to know to be able to tell the difference between the signs of a cheating spouse and infidelity? Extramarital affairs and sexual encounters are not done to form or experience intimacy or some … Continue reading →

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Facing the Consequences of Extramarital Affairs

Posted on October 11, 2012 by Jan Stevens

One of the things that always becomes an issue for people who have had extramarital affairs is deciding between telling their partners what they did and keeping it to themselves, which is a decision that only they can make on … Continue reading →

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Infidelity Details: Reasons Why They’re Kept Hidden

Posted on October 4, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Most people want to know every single one of the infidelity details of what happened when they discover that their partner was involved in an extramarital affair. When, where, why and what happened? We all have our reasons for wanting … Continue reading →

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