Tag Archives: Surviving Infidelity

After Infidelity: Restoring the Trust in the Relationship and In Yourself

Posted on July 5, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Restoring trust after infidelity is always one of the main issues or trials that couples have to go through whenever infidelity enters a relationship. People always ask the same thing when this happens to them and their relationship: if there … Continue reading →

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Focusing on Yourself to Heal Infidelity and Develop Trust

Posted on June 14, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Is focusing on yourself in a relationship a good way to heal infidelity and develop trust? How is that possible? By focusing on yourself, you understand how important it is to let your partner know what your needs are as … Continue reading →

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How Charging Neutral Can Rebuild the Trust in Your Marriage

Posted on June 12, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What benefits does charging neutral provide to your marriage after infidelity? Will you be able to fix your relationship? And more importantly, will you be able to trust your partner and yourself again? Developing trust, especially in marriages affected by … Continue reading →

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Understanding the Seven Different Types of Affairs

Posted on May 29, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What are the seven different types of affairs? How do they begin and how do they develop? Having a deeper knowledge of the types of affairs will help you understand your partner’s actions better. Knowing why your husband or wife … Continue reading →

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The Key to Moving Forward After the Affair

Posted on May 24, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Are there things we can do to make sure that we are moving forward after our partner’s infidelity? What are these things? Going through infidelity is difficult for everyone, no matter the situation, and moving forward from a situation like … Continue reading →

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Rebuilding the Relationship: Making Sure It Works

Posted on May 15, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What does it take to make sure that rebuilding the relationship or marriage will work after infidelity gets in the middle of it? A lot of couples have succeeded in rebuilding the relationship, but not after a few bumps in … Continue reading →

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Infidelity Counseling: Why Men Avoid Marital Therapy

Posted on May 10, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Why are men so against infidelity counseling, especially when they’re the ones who have done the cheating? Most of the time, when a couple goes in for infidelity counseling or marital therapy to try to rebuild their marriage after an … Continue reading →

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Details of the Affair: Why Isn’t He/She Telling Me?

Posted on May 8, 2012 by Jan Stevens

How important is it to know the details of the affair? When infidelity occurs in the marriage, it is common for the victim to demand to know the details of the affair – asking what happened, when, where and how … Continue reading →

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Real-Life Infidelity Stories: Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity

Posted on April 24, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Is it possible to be able to trust after infidelity? The following is a summary of a session with a client who is finding it difficult to trust after infidelity. She talks about some of the things she is dealing … Continue reading →

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Real-Life Infidelity Stories: How to Emotionally Reconnect After the Affair

Posted on April 19, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Are you having trouble figuring out how to emotionally reconnect with your spouse after infidelity? This is from another real-life coaching session with a client who is having a rather hard time dealing with her husband’s extramarital affair. She talks … Continue reading →

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